It’s the weekend. You’re standing in the middle of a packed bar with your small clan of guy pals. You’re surrounded by swarms of beautiful women, yet somehow you can’t seem muster up the courage to approach one of these lovely ladies.

The trick here, is being able to recognize the approach invitation or in other words, the many different signs of attraction that a woman will give you to show her interest. Once you can recognize these signals, you’ll be able to approach her with confidence, knowing that she is already attracted to you. So what are these signs of attraction?

Non-Verbal Indicators of Interest

There are many ways she will show her attraction through body language for example:

  • If she locks eye contact with you for longer than 3 seconds.
  • If she is twirling or playing with her hair while looking towards you or talking with you.
  • If she is exposing her neck and slightly tilting her head towards you.
  • If she is sitting down and her leg is pointing towards you, even better if her thigh is slightly exposed.
  • If she goes out of her way to stand close to you, bump into you or gently touch you in anyway.

Examples of Verbal Signals of Attraction

Should you actually cold approach her or by chance strike up a conversation with one of these beautiful women, there are other indicators of interest which will help you to identify her further interest in you.

  • If she asks for your name before you have asked for hers.
  • If she gives you a sincere compliment on your appearance.
  • If she asks where you live or starts telling you where she lives.
  • If she actively resumes or initiates conversation after an awkward pause or stalled conversation.
  • If she starts trying to qualify herself to you, as in telling you how good she is at certain things, trying to impress you, etc.

Now many of these things may seem obvious when read to the average male, but you’d be surprised at how many men are completely oblivious to these signs of attraction. If one were to simply keep these simple things in mind when approaching and talking to beautiful women, then it will make all the difference in their confidence level.

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