Getting your ex back can sometimes be seen as a desperate move. Although it is not recommended because you don’t seem to be moving on with your life, there are certain methods that can be used.

You need to decide if the ex you want to get back is worth it at all. Does he/she add value to your life? Would you feel much better as a person if they were back in your life? If you can decide on these points then try these five top tips in winning your ex back.

1) Ignore his or her calls. If they are trying to call you back then ignore the calls. This shows them you are not desperate. It also shows them you have a life that you are leading. When you feel it is right you can take your call and tell them you have been busy.

2) Date casually in front of them. Showing them some of your dates can make them feel a bit jealous and feel like they lost you. Just make sure you don’t seem too desperate in front of them.

3) Start looking smarter. If you make yourself look better then your ex will feel like they lost something that looks really good and they would look good with it. It also makes them think that they were not that great when they were with you!

4) Be good friends with all their friends. This may be a tough one to do. However, if done properly, they will maybe convince your ex that they should try to get back with you; that is if you have convinced them well enough and in a smart way.

5) Date your ex’s best friend. This is probably the last and most dangerous resort to take. If you are strong to risk it then go for it. Dating your ex’s best friend will make her feel that you always had an eye on her friend while you were going out with her…she will feel she will need to win you back!

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